Infidelity is one of the most concerning topics of this generation. Couples tend to succumb to infidelity in many ways. There are different criteria for it. But, the action cannot be glorified as many would concern.
Why do people commit Infidelity acts?
In recent years studies show that 30% of couples are tending to commit infidelity actions. The reason for this is said to vary among genders and relationship longevity.
Most people say that men are more prone to commit the act of cheating their partners than women. It is true in some cases. In the recent data trends, which is around 16 years, that trend has taken a U-turn.
It is said that mostly 10% of married women in their 30’s tend to commit more infidelity acts than 9% of their male counterparts.
What do they get from committing betrayal?
The adultery gets romanticized again, rejuvenated sex life, and feels more worthy than they deserve.
This usually happens when the love between the couples gets stale and monotonous.
But, on the counterpart, the receiver feels depression, anxiety, and mostly rejection. Being at the receiving end is one of the painful experiences a human can go through.
Why do people want to betray their loved ones?
This is where we need to understand that self-love is more important than giving love.
It is a mix-match argument that self-love can only be seen as selfishness. That’s where psychologists differ.
For example, if a person is more self-love, there will be more love to give to our better half. If you only have an empty spot to give, there is nothing in the relationship. That’s why psychologists have found that those people who tend to love themselves more will give love to others.
What if you are self-loving and giving love to your better half but still they cheat on you?
Then it is the consequence of incompatibility that adultery is made that way. This comes under the fact that your priorities are different from each other. So, it is not safe to proceed.
Some cheating occurs due to wrong accusations or not feeling heard
False accusations can most often trigger betrayal. False accusations of someone will make them promote to do the unfaithful act than to be faithful since they are always being doubted for it.
Not feeling heard in a relationship can ruin it in a matter of moments. Love is said to be in giving and receiving. Without the giving of love is in conjunction with the receiving end. The adulterer tends to venture for solace.
Can you be with the same person after adultery?
It is tough to assess this factor. It totally depends upon the person who is on the receiving end. If he/she can are looking forward to continuing the relationship, maybe it will be worthwhile. In most cases, it never happens.
Why many people accept a monogamy relationship?
As human beings, we tend to stick with a person since age defines the form of love that we are going to experience.
Sexual affection alone cannot make a relationship work. There needs to be love, care, bonding, and being there for one another. This is why most people stick with monogamy.
Adultery in a relationship is not the end to many, but it always is the kink in your relationship armor.
Be kind to one another.